This post accompanies the latest episode of the Rewilded Wellness Podcast : find the full episode on iTunes, Spotify, or YouTube.
It started with an Instagram comment.
I'd posted a video about eating more greens — it's spring, the garden is overflowing, and I wanted to have a simple, embodied conversation about food. And someone wrote: "I agree except for spinach. It's high in oxalates, which I think are a huge problem."
One sentence. Maybe Well-meaning, probably reflexive. And it's a perfect snapshot of where we've landed as a culture around nourishment.
We've been trained to treat every meal as a risk calculation. Every plant has a compound you should know about. Every body becomes a collection of labels and syndromes — MCAS, SIBO, histamine intolerance — segmented into compartments until there's no cohesive whole left. The result is a culture drowning in wellness information but starved of actual nourishment.
In this episode, I explore the gap between cognitive participation (researching, scanning, memorizing pathways) and embodied participation (chopping greens, cooking without a recipe, trusting your hands). I share why the kitchen could be a regulating environment for a nervous system stuck in hypervigilance. And I make the case that plant compounds — oxalates, lectins, sulfur — aren't universally bad. The terrain of the person in front of you is what matters. The question isn't "are oxalates bad?" The question is: what's going on in the physiology of the person who can't tolerate them right now, and what needs to be corrected so the terrain can handle more variety, not less?
The blanket statement — "this compound is bad, avoid it" — doesn't solve anything. It doesn't allow for repair. It just adds another restriction to someone who's already overwhelmed. And the hypervigilance itself, the constant scanning, the tight grip around every food choice — I think that stress is far more harmful in the long run than the oxalate ever was.
If you've ever felt like you can't have a healthy conversation about food anymore, like there's always someone who needs to correct you, like your body feels unpredictable and the instinct is to research more and narrow more — this episode is for you.
Listen to the full episode on iTunes, Spotify, or YouTube.
In the episode, I walk through my Meat & Veggie Hash method — not a recipe, but a seasonal kitchen framework you can cook a thousand different ways. Here it is in full, so you can print it, save it, and get back in your kitchen.
A simple seasonal meal you can cook a thousand different ways
This is one of my favorite meals because it's flexible, nourishing, and quick to prepare. The idea is not to follow one exact recipe but to use a formula:
Meat + vegetables + herbs + broth + time
Once you understand the method, you can cook this meal using whatever is growing in your garden, sitting in your fridge, or waiting in your freezer.
Motto: Keep it simple.
1 pound ground meat
Choose any kind you like:
Serves: 4–6
Goal per meal: 1–3 cups vegetables per serving
Total vegetables: 6–18 cups
For balance, combine two categories.
Examples:
Examples:
Start with two vegetables and expand once you get comfortable.
Choose a few:
Use what your gut tolerates:
Use a spoonful to start cooking:
A little brightness at the end makes everything better.
Add:
Top with fresh herbs like:
Enjoy the hash as a complete meal, or serve it:
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